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The Inner Game of Business – The Conversations Business Owners Avoid
One of the biggest misunderstandings in business is this: People assume delayed decisions are usually caused by a lack of clarity. In reality, they’re often caused by emotional discomfort. I’ve seen very intelligent business owners avoid conversations they already...

The Inner Game of Business – When Everything Comes Back to You
There’s a role many business owners slowly drift into without even realising it. They become “the reliable one”. The person everyone goes to. The one who steps in. Fixes problems. Keeps things moving. Remembers everything. Carries things others miss. At first, it...

The Inner Game of Business – The Fingerprints We Leave Behind
One thing I’ve noticed over the years working with business owners is this: People often remember the outcome. But not always the person who helped shape it. I’ve given ideas, perspectives, solutions, observations, introductions, strategies, and shifts in thinking to...

The Inner Game of Business – The Zoo Exhibit
There's something that crops up every now and again with business owners I work with. And that's when the thoughts of what other people might think begins to stifle them. It doesn’t usually show up in an obvious way. No one says: “I’m making this decision because I’m...

The Inner Game of Business – The Smoke Alarm
There’s a phrase I hear a lot from business owners. It's usually said quite casually. Almost as if it’s just part of who they are. “I don’t like conflict.” And on the surface, that sounds reasonable. Most people don’t. But when you sit with it a little longer, it...

The Inner Game of Business – Why Customers Buy (And Why They Don’t)
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been exploring a simple but important question: Why do customers buy? And just as importantly: Why do they delay decisions? In business, it’s easy to assume the answer lies in obvious places. Price. Marketing. Promotion. But when you step...

The Inner Game of Business – The Hidden Cost of Friction
Throughout this series we’ve been exploring the psychology behind why clients buy – or delay decisions. We’ve looked at how buying decisions are shaped by three underlying forces: 1. Risk 2. Effort 3. Reward And we’ve explored several signals that influence those...

The Inner Game of Business – Why Proof Accelerates Decisions
Throughout this series we’ve explored the psychology behind buying decisions. We’ve looked at clarity, trust and simplicity, and how each of these influences the perceived risk and effort involved in a purchase. Another important signal is confidence. Even when...

The Inner Game of Business – The Paradox of Choice
So far in this series, I’ve explored how buying decisions are influenced by risk, effort and reward, and how clarity and trust shape those forces. Another factor that strongly influences effort is simplicity. Or more specifically, the absence of it. Many businesses...

The Inner Game of Business – Why Trust Speeds Up Decisions
In my previous newsletter, I explored how buying decisions are shaped by risk, effort and reward, and how clarity helps clients understand what they’re buying. Another powerful signal influencing decisions is trust. Trust is one of the fastest ways to reduce perceived...